no of course not . you must be in some form of contact with females . parties , nights out . through friends ?
i met my missus on a night out .started talking to her at the bar , brought her a drink , danced with her all night , kissed , exchanged numbers etc then had a one night stand with her , a couple of days later she started texting me (i must have been good ) . was talking like that for a few days then i just invited her out for a date . and the rest is history