I am really disturbed by the gamergate affair. Mostly because it really IS an agenda. It has nothing to do with discussion, it is all about denial. And this is always a bad thing.
edit:
Finally managed to watch this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MxqSwzFy5w
Exactly that. (It’s the video from ronin1325’s posting #28)
There are feminists like her, and I’d love to discuss with those people. But how many people know her, and how many people know Anita Sarkeesian? And why is that so?
It is sure a relevant topic, but this is the completely wrong and unfair approach - in fact, it hurts the discussion more than it could possibly help it. Anita Sarkeesian is attention grabbing. She got her own channel. She has ads running there. This is not about discussion.
In fact, after reading the interview, Vavra said more smart things about sexism and such than most of the sexism bloggers out there.
The best articles about sexism and the problems with sexism I’ve read so far have been written by men. What does this tell you?
Before I elaborate and start translating my ongoing, very serious (and unfortunately already very long) discussion with a friend who actual is an active and very intelligent (female) feminist I’ll leave a few links here.
First off, here is an example of what real misogynist sexism is:
http://badassdigest.com/2014/07/01/film-crit-hulk-smash-hulk-vs.-michael-bay/
I’ve had these moments too. You could throw up when you recognize them. The problem is, as he also notes, that most people don’t see it. They get the message, though. This is the really dangerous sexism. Using the trope of the “damsel in distress” is not. It’s a McGuffin. Of course the woman is objectified, but for the sake of the purpose, not out of the intention to degrade women. By the way, so is the “hero prince”… but no one complains about that.
Anyway.
When you read above article and understood the point, here’s something even worse:
http://filmcrithulk.wordpress.com/2013/12/07/we-need-to-change-how-we-talk-about-rape/
And this is the problem with wrong sexism in a nutshell, presented by the example rape.
It’s not fun to read. If you don’t bother trying to understand other people, don’t do it. But it’s one of the best reads out there on that topic. I strongly recommend it.