Note: This is not a mad response in any sense, but rather a civil question as I am genuinely curious.
I am enjoying many aspects of the game and am having a ton of fun with it! Stealth however, does it really matter other than in success at the task at hand? Killing the executioner from Rattay for example, with no one around, results in -100 rep with the citizens, everyone hates you and you have to pay a massive fine. Also, taking someone’s items: Sneaking up on a wayfare knight and taking his armour (with no one around), yet everyone on the map knows it’s stolen. Just really don’t see the benefit of being stealthy outside of combat situations.