Game breaking bug (Saintly remains) Spoilers ps4

Got the side quest from Urban at the monastery who wants wants to touch the relic. Found the bowl and after he touches it he wants you to return it. Problem is, I can’t return it, prompt comes up in the cave by the cross but it won’t do anything and you can’t just drop it because it’s a quest item. He’s involved in a main quest later on and will attack on site because you didn’t return it and there was no option to surrender or talk to him.

At first I thought it was because I never returned the bowl because it says quest completed after he touches it. I reloaded a save just before he attacked and couldn’t place the bowl back so then I reloaded a save before doing the quest and tried returning it as soon as he touched it and still no luck