Monestary completely bugged

My monestary is just completely bugged every quest that happens in there just gets bugged and i cant finish it or im just getting tp’ed to a later point of the quest which is even more bugged and completely gamebreaking.
The game worked great for me until the first mini patch came. I didnt even notice 1 bug before but after those mini patches its just riddeled with buggs. I cant complete the exchanged stone quest because as soon as im finding out who is behind it im just getting ported into the nearest mill in which the stone worker guy just sits and as soon as i come close to him he tips over and flys through the ground and i cant leave the mill. Had to reload an older save to avoid this mission. But hence i now reached the story point in which i have to infiltrate the monestary i cant get around this fcking building. As soon as i started the quest and i made my first steps in novice shoes one of the law keeper monks said ive stoolen and had to be punished even tho i just spawned and didnt even interact with anything there. through reloading and some trial and error i finally managed to get past this bug. But then comes the mission breaking bug as soon as i spend my first night there the law keeper monk wakes me at 2am and says i shouldnt be here this is restricted area even tho its the dorm and the indicator on the top isnt there and im well within the time windows thats written down in the book. As soon as i get out of monk jail im getting immediately arrested again for something i didnt do because i couldnt really interract with anything yet. After all that i just reloaded a old pre monk savegame and tried the good old brute force method aka lockpicking my way in at night. as soon as i had opened the first door i got arrested by teh same fcking monk even tho i didnt even join their club and i cant do anything about it. I tried reloading several older savegames replayed all that bs tried different ways. But everytime im getting in there that cop monk just busts me for nothing. I cant continue this quest which i kinda need to for the main story. Dear devs could you just abbandon the console version and start fixing the version that was advertised back when i backed? Im slightly pissed