How dare you make rape jokes and calling rape “most hilarious shit ever” or “oh no moment”? If rape in a game is classified as an “oh no moment”, it is as much of a fantasy game as a game with dragons.
Lara Croft is called “Lara Croft”. Same as “Batman” being Batman. Those kind of games have no character customization, they include only one protagonist. Kingdom Come: Deliverance does have character customization, meaning you make your own character. I see absolutely no reason why it would be impossible, and I absolutely can’t see why it would be less exciting, to play as a female character.