i didnt game much in my early twenties, i studied hard , worked hard and fucked harder
its amazing what you can fit into a day when you want something . them years ultimately set me up for life , now im just riding the wave a preparing for my next phase …and gaming ALOT 
trouble is most people are to generalised in there goals . they have goals like "get rich " , goals like that are worthless .
smalls goals leading to the big goal is how to do it .
then there is just lazy people who prefer to place obstacles in the way of everything 