No, that’s not what I mean. You can fight. But when you lose, they should either kill you or take your weapon and hold on to you. Losing a fight to the death and then starting a conversation with the person that almost killed you without making sure that they aren’t a threat anymore is just unbelievably absurd.
It’s the equivalent of a policeman who goes with a gun in his hand after a murderer and then stops in front of them to ask them questions.