I think you Just need to be more Creative about how you go about it, and remember its an RPG.
I just completed the quest 100% without speaking to the Herb woman a single time.
First I collect enough Herbs to make the Antidote, and them some extra to buy the Brown Quilted jacket from the merchant in samopesh.
I then head to herbalist and auto cook the antidote (gives me a smoke break).
Put on the Brown quilted Jacket and take of everything else until my Charisma is at its Highest.
Talk to Jerry first, offer to help him before asking all the questions about what happened.
After going over all the questions with Jerry I unlock his Larder door without walking (don’t discover the meat yet).
I then go talk to Talbot the fisherman and get him to tell me his side of the story. With the Charisma bonus of the quilted jacket you can persuade him at each prompt successfully.
Then Speak to Marianna and get her take on the whole thing, Offer to help her.
Then I go back to Jerry’s house discover the meat and then go speak to Jerry’s wife.
After talking to Jerry’s wife and asking her about the rotting meat I go to the plot up the road Jerry is working, and go over the investigation with him where he then reveals the whole plot of his wife being the culprit.
He will attempt to bribe you, at this point you can choose to agree with pinning the crime on Marianna or tell Jerry off and tell the bailiff.
I hate Jerry King Poop Butt so I turn his ass in.
I even took the time to do it again this time recording.