there is a mod for saving and it seems to work.
for example i got a bug when i paid for a bed at ledetschko and couldn’t leave the room because of some weird collision problem. quite some hour was lost because i was just randomly walking around with no autosaves after quest progress.
if the save mechanics is about forcing immersion than i can only say that this is not true. if you think saving ruins your gameplay, than just don’t save. but having to play things over and over, just because real life happens is a bit frustrating.
btw, the sleep in own bed save mechanic doesn’t look reliable. at least the bed at the mill in rattay. it shows that it saved the game after waking up, but when you startup the game this savepoint isn’t loaded and it’s not visible in the saved games list.
i just hope the developers don’t make that mod to stop working, because to me it is essential to be able to save at any time because i have a life beside gaming and i don’t want to be forced to leave my computer on